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Richard Nolan's avatar

your mom was beautiful

Maura Casey's avatar

Thank you! She was.

Richard Nolan's avatar

Her children are almost as pretty as she was.

Maura Casey's avatar

Hah! NONE of us looked like her, sadly.

Bethe Dufresne's avatar

Excellent, Maura. My father was a World War II veteran and career officer in the Army's Medical Service Corps. He loved his country, and loved serving in the Army. He hated the ire that was directed at Vietnam veterans (while privately saying that war was a mistake) but lived long enough to be annoyed when the tide turned so far that everyone who put on a uniform was automatically called a hero. He never considered himself a hero - just someone who did his job.

One more thing - your mother looks absolutely beautiful!

Maura Casey's avatar

Thank you, Bethe! Your father sounds like he was a great citizen and a good man. My mother was, indeed, lovely - of course, I look exactly like my father!

Suzette Ciancio's avatar

Amen, Maura, amen!

Dr. Carole Rollins's avatar

Thanks Maura for your insights and perspective.

Sue O'Hara's avatar

I think "the military" has been canonized because the experience of serving in it is now so uncommon. When the draft existed, most men served, and that was seen as normal. Now it's exotic, glamorized, and highly subject to manipulation by politicians and others who stand to gain. At the same time, the fact that it's isolated makes it easy to dismiss the real costs of war in lives and treasure

Maura Casey's avatar

Sue, you are onto something. I also think that when someone in your family was or is in the military, it makes it more likely that others in the family will join. So my Mom was very positive about her Army service; my sister was an Army officer and my brother was in the Navy.

Roberta Baskin's avatar

Well said, Maura! Imagine if we fed the hungry and provided healthcare and education instead of enriching the military industrial complex's ballooning budget. America's shift in priorities creates a soulless country. Now more than ever this anti-Vietnam PSA from 50 years ago applies. https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1FD96LD9Fu/

Maura Casey's avatar

Holy crap, what a powerful commercial!!!

Merrill Pearson-Bloor's avatar

I remember that commercial!

CYNTHIA DICKSTEIN's avatar

All that you said is so true and unfortunately so infrequently recognized. Your piece is a great reminder. Excellent, as usual